I know things are really tough this year, and I understand how stressful that can be. A few programs that have helped me are: Trees for Troops to get a free Christmas tree, school or church Angel Giving programs where families in need can register to receive gifts (check your local organizations), YMCA child giving programs, Toys for Tots, and using the local Facebook Buy Nothing pages to get things like hand-me-down coats, clothing, boots, accessories, and even furniture.

My husband is currently deployed and we are having a hard time being able to get our kids Christmas. Please help!

Please visit http://www.ppymca.org/programs/military/operation-kid-comfort and put in a SEPARATE online request (with photos of family / deployed parent, including one in uniform) for EACH kiddo. NOTE: Photos of kiddos by themselves are not permitted.

Please scan / email a copy of the deployment orders showing a deployment of 120 days or longer (black out SSN’s for security purposes) to comfortquilts@ppymca.org, so we can validate program eligibility. NOTE: Only one (1) set of orders is needed to verify the entire family’s eligibility.

These are great, thank you for sharing your experiences! I can certainly relate to the bargain hunting, but there are some incredible resources out there!

I understand, I hear this complaint all the time from reservist families. It’s unfortunate the resources aren’t more balanced, but circumstances are very different between active duty and reserve families. However, there are Yellow Ribbon programs, the Our Military Kids scholarship program, and various community programs like the ASYMCA and USO that are open to National Guard and Reserve families. I have a few other posts about deployment benefits that would apply to your family. Check out this article: https://seasonedspouse.com/the-giant-list-of-deployment-resources-for-military-families/

Fabian,
I’m sorry to hear that. Have you heard of Vet Centers? Based on what you wrote, you would qualify for services from them. They are part of the VA but they keep their records separate so it’s even more confidential. They offer individual, couples, and group therapy (they specialize in trauma) and often have flexible hours and specialty groups (such as a music therapy group). They can also help connect to services. Regarding help with VA disability benefits, reach out to Disabled American Veterans. Student Veterans of America is another resource worth looking into. Best wishes!

Hi Fabian, thanks for stopping by. I commend you on your educational accomplishments, although I’m sorry to hear all the circumstances you have been through. I’m not aware of a program that provides free Laptops for veterans. However, if you are approved for FAFSA (federal aid) then I believe they include an incentive or discount designed to provide students with a laptop.