Comments on: Who Has the Toughest Job in a Military Marriage? https://seasonedspouse.com/toughest-job-military-marriage/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=toughest-job-military-marriage We're all in this together! Fri, 03 Mar 2023 04:22:48 +0000 hourly 1 By: Lizann https://seasonedspouse.com/toughest-job-military-marriage/#comment-244 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 05:44:11 +0000 https://seasonedspouse.com/?p=4262#comment-244 In reply to momheathers.

Hey, thanks so much for stopping by and sharing! I love the tagging out idea. We should use that with our 4 kids.

]]> By: momheathers https://seasonedspouse.com/toughest-job-military-marriage/#comment-243 Thu, 08 Jun 2017 01:00:54 +0000 https://seasonedspouse.com/?p=4262#comment-243 You titled this right…Toughest Job–Military Marriage, marriage is a job, in the sense each person has to work at it daily. And there will be times when each person will perform above and beyond and times when each person falls way below “average”. I am guilty of both. We both are. We came to a balance of he would use his 35 minute commute home as his down time so when he got home he could help me, since he knew he would be “attacked” by 5 kids excited to see him. Then after a bit I would “tag him out” so he could relax and we would all come together for dinner. Finding that balance and understanding is key and is hard but very worth it to the marriage. Marriage isn’t a competition, like you said, both jobs are tough acknowledge that and that what you see as very hard in your own job and in your spouse’s may differ than what they see….and that is okay!

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